HOW TO HAVE A POSITIVE RELATIONSHIP WITH MONEY THIS YEAR

Today I’m lucky enough to be featured in ‘The Sun Savers Show’ and knew I’d have lots of new people asking for money advice after talking about how to have a positive relationship with your money. Now, although I moved away from my money-saving roots over a year ago, money is just as important now in what I do as I help people change their relationship around money and their mindset in general using the Law of Attraction. Having previously worked in banking, I got myself out of £7,000 debt, I’ve also run two successful businesses over the last 7 years and even been the Coupon Queen back in the day so money has always interested me and how we interact with it. I’m also super excited that my next book ‘Positively Wealthy’ is coming out in June and I can share with you a new way of looking at your relationship with money and wealth in a grounded and practical way using spirituality.

So if you are new here, welcome! I have lots of great YouTube videos, podcasts and blog posts for you to explore. If you want to know more about the Law of Attraction, what it is and how to start then I have lots of great free content for you here on my website and social media. Not that we’re in January, money always seems to be the talking point and I find this month especially is where many can feel anxious, negative or even fearful of their financial situation and how to turn this around. This is why I’m so passionate about sharing this work with people because you don’t have to feel this way. You can feel happy, calm and at peace before you’ve even manifested a single penny! So here are my top tips on how to have a positive relationship with money this year…

Get Clear On Your Situation

Avoidance is the biggest cause of money blocks and feeling negative towards your finances. It’s so easy to avoid looking at your bank balance or even guess how much money you have left for the month. All of this is avoidance and not the vibes you want to be putting out to manifest more money. Get real with your finances and sit down with them, work out how much debt you have, how much your bills will be this month and how much you currently have in your bank account. You may even be pleasantly surprised! I tried to manifest being debt-free for so long having no clue what I actually owed anymore. I knew a rough figure, but how could I be grateful for what I had if I had no clue what I actually had? After getting real with my finances and working out the exact figure I needed I believe it was around £5,400 at the time I ended up manifesting £11,000 of new money within 5 days making me completely debt-free and able to invest in my business! When we avoid our finances our ego loves to play the victim and convince you it’s all negative and there’s no hope. You’re better than that Queen once you have clarity and acceptance of the situation the Universe can get to work and you can start manifesting from a place of acceptance and gratitude instead of fear and lack. Like I said you could have been worrying over nothing!

Mindfully Spend

My next tip is to mindfully spend this is also a great self-love practice. If you’re worried about money and are desperately trying to manifest it – mindlessly spending what you do have is only going to make the situation worse. There is a lot of shit out there in Law of Attraction books etc that say spending money creates more money. This is only true if it feels GOOD to spend the money if you go and mindlessly spend money you shouldn’t really be on luxuries, is that going to make you feel happy or actually more anxious now that you have even less for the month ahead. This is all about your energy at the end of the day, so hold that item in the shop does it feel good to buy it? Will you get lots of use out of it and will it bring you joy? If the answer is no then put it back and wait, see how you feel about it in a week or so or when you next get paid. If it’s a yes and it feels good to buy it then you will naturally attract more money to you through these good feelings with every transaction. This may seem like a really simple step but how many times have we all bought things which didn’t really bring us that much joy then later regretted it!

“Once you have clarity and acceptance of the situation the Universe can get to work and you can start manifesting from a place of acceptance and gratitude instead of fear and lack”

Start Setting Those Intensions

Now, this is a great step in manifesting new money to you as if you don’t set intentions/goals how can the Universe know what you want to bring into your life? Regularly manifesting is the best way to attract abundance to you consistently. So make sure at the beginning of a new month you’re setting personal, work and financial goals of what you’d like to achieve that month. You can simply do this in a notebook each month and even print out a magic check (from the book The Secret click here to print one). Fill this out at the beginning of a new month with the amount of new money you’d like to call into your life (manifest) then at the end of the month go back to your check and your goals and see how many happened! Again clarity is key with manifesting so this is why you can’t just say you want to manifest the money you have to be specific on how much. Remember to let go of ‘how’ and ‘when’ it will come to you, have faith that the Universe has your back and will bring it to you in the perfect timing. 

Use Positive Affirmations

Next up in my top tips is speaking positively about your money situation, so often it’s easy to fall into bad habits and use phrases like ‘I’m skint, I haven’t got any money this month or I’m terrible with money’ all of these statements affirm that you are. If you want to change your money relationship and how you feel about your current situation, then you can start by talking positively! Instead of the negative affirmations, you could say regularly positive affirmations like ‘Money flows to me easily and effortlessly, I have a positive relationship with money or my income is always increasing’. You don’t have to run around telling everyone you’re a millionaire because right now would you really believe that? Would your energy reflect that? Start off small with your statements and see how this makes you feel with repetition you will feel much better about your relationship with money and even believe your statements. If you catch yourself about to say a negative affirmation to someone stop and change the phrase if you can’t afford to go and do something instead of saying those negative phrases say ‘I’m choosing not to spend any money at the moment but thanks for inviting me’. This is where your mindful spending practice will come in handy!

Save On The Everyday Essentials

Now we all know I love a good coupon and deal so of course, I’m going to include that in here. This month if you are working with a budget and are working towards feeling good with your money situation, make sure that you’re looking out for real bargains and coupons. You can absolutely save on the everyday essentials and what better way with things you buy week in week out and will use. If you do want coupons and deals then you can find some great ones on my old business page ‘Extreme Couponing and Deals UK’. Remember there are lots of ‘sales and discounts’ around at the moment so do your research, is it really money-saving and will it bring you joy to purchase or can it wait until next month when it feels better to do so?

So there you have it guys my top tips on how to have a positive relationship with money this year! I hope this blog post has helped you and even inspired you to try some new tools and practices surrounding money. As I mentioned I have a whole kickass book coming in June covering wealth, money mindset and how to manifest abundance into all areas of your life using even more great practices and tools. The pre-order for Positively Wealthy goes live in March and the book is released on June 9th 2020. So make sure to keep an eye on my website and social media to be notified when it comes out. As always please do let me know your thoughts on this in the comments section down below. Make sure to check out my NEW Manifestation Membership which has launched this week, which is a community for spiritual queen’s designed to help you turn your dream life into an abundant reality – plus we even have our own app! Click here for more information on how to join my membership. I hope you have a great week whatever you’re up to and I’m sending you all lots of love xx