WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO SURRENDER YOUR DESIRES?

In the Law of Attraction sphere, letting go and surrendering is being spoken about more and more now. Back six years ago when I first found the Law of Attraction, talking about letting go and surrendering was unheard of and why I hit so many roadblocks with my own manifestations. This is why I cultivated my five steps to the Law of Attraction and have been teaching these on my channels over the last few years as I really feel this is the missing link and why so many stay stuck with their manifestations. So this week I wanted to share with you what it really means to let go and surrender.

Many think this is a process and while yes it is part of my Law of Attraction process to truly let go and surrender cannot be done with a process. It’s a process of unraveling and unlearning the process to peace and flow. Really from my own experiences surrendering is loosening your grip on control and allowing yourself to flow and receive. When we apply this in a manifesting perspective it’s about releasing your need for control and attachment with your desires. Letting go is of attachment and surrendering is releasing control and resistance. When I think of what it means to be in a surrendered state it is not perfect – while yes it’s a very feminine energy the feminine energy is not focused on perfection nor is it a process. Truly and authentically surrendering means witnessing and allowing yourself to release resistance and entering into a flow state where you can receive on all levels. Getting there is certainly easier said than done and does take patience, awareness, and tools but when done right you’ll start to experience more joy, freedom, happiness, and abundance too!

When focusing on letting go and surrendering with your desires think about what keeps you attached to them and feeling resistance – is it fear? Comparison? Safety? Identify what the core emotion or feeling is underneath your control and then look at how that has been showing up in your life. If it’s safety for instance how can you give yourself and your inner child more feelings of safety and stability? If it’s comparison how can you work on your self-worth and feeling enough within yourself first? What stops us from surrendering and flowing with life and our desires is resistance. So we have to work back and witness what has kept us stuck in a place of resistance to be able to release this and move forwards into peace and joy in the present moment. When we can experience peace and joy in the present moment we become naturally surrendered. Think back to your easiest manifestations – what made them feel easy to you? Did you attach? Did you obsess? Did you try to control them? Probably not, just like all of us they come easy because we flow more instead of restricting and control. It’s also about the emphasis we put on these desires and even pedestalling them to be ‘big’ so you have to change the way you see your desires too. Seeing them as big or separate to you only keeps them further away but seeing these desires as done and connecting to the core energy/emotion of the desire instead of focusing on how it visually looks is key.

Surrendering is a reminder to come back home to yourself and peace, it’s not just about letting go of your attachment to your desires but it’s about learning to flow with life and the Universe’s plans too. Yes, we can set intentions and plan but really how that plays out and when is down to the Universe. Learning to surrender control allows you to open up to receiving but also to inner peace and being truly present.

I hope this blog post has really served you and given you some great tips on how you can surrender in all areas of your life this week. Don’t forget the doors to my Manifestation Membership are open for the next week! The membership launched 20 months ago now which means when you sign-up you get instant access to over 20 months worth of topics and content. The membership is an affordable and accessible group coaching setting where you get monthly live moon circles and coaching sessions with myself, as well as industry expert live circles, workbooks, meditations, videos, downloadable content and much more each and every month! If you’d like to find out more information and what’s included then you can find everything by clicking here and also how you can sign up. Join me and make 2021 a year filled with magic and manifestation! I can’t wait to see you in there Queen and help you manifest your dreams this year. As always please do let me know your thoughts on this blog post in the comments section down below. I hope you have a positive and abundant week whatever you’re up to. I’m sending you all lots of love xx