HOW TO TAKE CONTROL BACK OF YOUR LIFE

Now you may feel that you’ve already got control of your life and your emotions and are in a place where you’re manifesting and up-levelling. With the recent heavy energy of Mercury Retrograde, I’ve been reminded of how we need to continuously take back control in our lives and how easy it is to passively watch things unfold and give away our power. So this week I wanted to share with you a blog post all on how you can take back control of your life and emotions.

Protect  Your Energy

As an empath, a big lesson for me in this lifetime has been to reclaim my power and stop giving my life over to others. I always trusted others over my own intuition, felt the power was in others hands and would even give my energy away to help others. This is why it’s so important to protect your energy, cut energetic chords with people who are no longer serving you and reclaim your power. Giving away our power and emotions can be subtle but over time you’ll realise how much a person or situation has taken over your life and how you don’t feel in control of your life or emotions as much as before. Brad Yates has a great EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) video on his YouTube channel which you can do regularly all designed to help you reclaim your power so I would strongly advise doing this. Also even affirming each morning ‘I call back all the lost pieces of myself and reclaim my power’ is a great way to start the day and take charge. Call in Archangel Michael to surround you with protective white light and make sure that you are in charge of who you give your time, energy and emotions to.

Make Decisions

Another thing I will hold my hand up and admit is in some areas of my life I have been very passive when it comes to making decisions. We’ve all had it where we debate with friends and loved ones for hours of what to do or what to eat and respond with ‘I don’t mind, you decide’. Whilst I’ve always thought of this to be a kind gesture and thoughtful response as I want the other person to be happy with our plans too, this is once again giving away your power. Making decisions is great Law of Attraction because it’s firmly saying to the Universe I know what I want and I’m choosing this. Now this can easily expand into bigger areas of our life where we believe sitting back and allowing is good Law of Attraction and flow when actually you have to be careful with this one because once again you can become passive and push your manifestations even further away because you’re not making decisions and taking inspired action. So challenge yourself here to reclaim your decision making power back because remember you are a strong ass Spiritual Queen who knows what she wants in life. So start off small, start by responding with ‘I’d like to go to the cinema and watch that new film we’ve been on about, how does that sound to you?’ You’re still giving the other person a choice and making their feelings valid but you’re equally taking control of your life and emotions and this clarity in even small decisions such as days out and food will enable you to positively make decisions with all areas of your life from a place of clarity.

“When you settle you’re not going to get the life or opportunities you’ve asked the Universe for. You have to keep reclaiming your power, take action, make decisions and keep choosing the life you want in order to manifest it.”

Life is happening for you, not to you

A timely phrase that most of us will have heard from Tony Robbins that even I still have to remind myself of sometimes is to remember that the Universe is working for you and everything is rigged in your favour Queen. Naturally, with this knowledge, some people do tend to sit back and let life go past them wondering when their time will come. On the flip side, I’m a Virgo who’s been in her masculine energy a lot, so I get the job done and have had to learn to flow and allow more instead of force. Whilst this has allowed me to have a more relaxed approach to manifesting once again in some areas where I’d been passive, shifts and miracles weren’t happening. Months and even years would pass and I would think c’mon I’m being patient! When actually I needed to reclaim my power and take my life back. So today choose one area of your life where you feel you have been too passive or you feel helpless in and ask yourself how you can take action on this today? The way to create the shifts is to take action with what you have now. When you sit around waiting for the right circumstances to happen in order to take that leap, buy that house, pay off your debt, start that business etc the right time will never come until you take action. So look at what is in your control right now, even if it doesn’t feel like what you’ll end up doing explore the option and put your intentions out there. Even if it still doesn’t feel aligned at least you know you’ve tried and can wait for the next step from the Universe. When you settle you’re not going to get the life or opportunities you’ve asked the Universe for. You have to keep reclaiming your power, take action, make decisions and keep choosing the life you want in order to manifest it.

I hope this blog post has inspired you to not let your life simply fly past you, take your power back and take control of your emotions and life. Be fierce in your decision making Queen and show the Universe you know what you want in life! As always please do let me know your thoughts on this in the comments section down below. Don’t forget you can join my FREE 7 day Manifesting Challenge starting on January 1st designed to help you kick start your manifesting journey in 2020, so make sure to sign up here to be involved! I hope you have a great week whatever you’re up to and I’m sending you all lots of love xx