After a deep coaching session with one of my coaching clients this week I actually ended up giving my lovely client a big breakthrough and myself too! Some of my clients ask me to intuitively guide the session and where their struggles are stemming from (I do this anyway but they still like to ask for this sometimes). So with that, I started to channel absolute gold advice for her, myself, and I’m certain all of you too! So this week I wanted to share with you my thoughts and feelings on why you need to be preparing for your manifestations.
Although I became aware of my five steps to the Law of Attraction a few years ago and have written about them numerous times before. After this session, I realised one extra part to step four – Letting Go. I realised as I was coaching my client in this session that I had been doing this unintentionally for years with my manifestations but actually how important it is to consciously know this in step four out of five. See in step three – Trust, it’s all about taking inspired action, acting as if, and meeting the Universe 50% of the way in your co-creation process. Yet what I’ve found with myself and clients is that especially with bigger manifestations or with manifestations that have taken time, healing, and there have been limiting beliefs around it too is that they find it hard to switch into receiving mode with this desire. My lovely client came to me in our session and said she still couldn’t find peace in the now and some limiting beliefs came up, after doing so much inner work with her over the past few months she is certainly an action taker and star! I couldn’t vibe where this was coming from so did some more digging to find it was actually the inner child/ego resisting change. I said to her from my own experiences ‘Right before your manifestation comes is normally when the inner critic/ego is the loudest. Not because you have inner work to do or there is something wrong, more because it’s resisting the very change that it knows is coming’.
Think about it when we really work hard and have put so much time, energy, and healing into something it can be scary to think you’re finally receiving that very thing, or what will happen when you finally do have that manifestation? To my client, it felt like a 9 on the scale when I asked ‘How safe does it feel to receive this manifestation?’ which was fantastic progress from where we started at the beginning of our sessions together. Meaning there wasn’t anything standing in the way of her desire and peace other than herself. I’m guilty of this too and this helped me to see actually when we are in this stage with our desires we have to prepare to receive it now, not still be trying to action and fix everything. What I mean by this is that sometimes when you’ve done a lot of inner work around something you can think you have to keep on going even when thoughts come up and that’s why your desire isn’t here yet. The truth is when we checked back in with my client’s fears that had come up they didn’t seem as intense or strong as they had to her before we spoke which again proved my own musings on this. With smaller manifestations it can be easy to switch into the receiving mode and prepare for that manifestation let me give you an example. If you were trying to manifest some money you might look online for what you’d like to purchase with that money or if it was for a project, plan out how you will invest it once it arrives. Yet, so often we end up in our own way and stuck trying to take more action when actually the very action we need to take is to open our arms to receive and prepare for its arrival.
‘Right before your manifestation comes is normally when the inner critic/ego is the loudest. Not because you have inner work to do or there is something wrong, more because it’s resisting the very change that it knows is coming’.
I’ve done this many times in my life and even now I’ve bought things for manifestations that could have gone either way, my loved ones thought I was mad for doing this but I knew it was coming and I was preparing for its arrival which is looking very positive and imminent now. So I thought okay how we can all apply this to our bigger manifestations where we’ve felt the most resistance? Accept and prepare for change. The very thing we resist is the change that is inevitable with our desire coming in, which is why so many stay stuck for so long never feeling at peace with the waiting. So what I got my client to do was make a list of all the things she could do here and now to prepare for her desire. So when that call came she’d be ready and raring to go not flustered trying to get everything ready in a panic. I then after our session made my own list of what I could do to prepare for my own desires to come and even told my friend who I’d had the very same conversation with earlier that day to do the same. When you know you’re manifestation is on the cusp like we all did, this is the time to prepare for its arrival. Just like with a baby you prepare for nine months before not on the day like ‘Oh my god we need to kit out a whole nursery and get essentials!’ No, you prepare for the baby coming, you prepare a hospital bag knowing that when the time comes and your baby is ready to come into the world you’re prepared and ready to go.
This is the essence of this message, instead of pushing and taking inspired action if you can feel and know you’re on the cusp and it’s the imminent change speaking rather than real limiting beliefs – start preparing for its arrival. These could be really practical things like having new work outfits ready and ironed for the new job you’re calling in. This could be having space free in your home for the love you’re calling in or even something as simple as eating healthier to feel better within yourself and where you want to be. Only you can answer what would need to happen to prepare for that manifestation but take that action today! Shift your mindset into receiving and preparing instead of actioning and wishing still, because if you know it’s on the cusp it really is and all it takes is that surrender from you.
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